"It took a while, but we've worked out a system. When that happens, I say I'm not ready to look at that yet. And he knows that I'm really asking for strength, not introspection. So he listens. And he's very good about listening."
"When we're done, then it's my turn. I tell him how much it meant that he listened. How I appreciate him walking along side me. And we share a moment."
"Wow", says the friend.
"But it can't stop there," the woman continues. "I do have to face myself. Usually the next day, we sit down and talk about those things that I didn't want to face. They can't go unresolved. It's funny how much easier it is, though."
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